In the realm of weddings, few celebrations match the grandeur and tradition of a Chinese wedding. Rich in symbolism, cultural significance, and meticulous planning, a Chinese wedding is not just a union of two souls; it’s a harmonious blend of ancient customs and modern elegance. From intricate rituals to lavish banquets, each element carries deep cultural significance–making it a cherished celebration for the newlyweds and their families and guests alike.

There is much to consider when planning a Chinese wedding. Here’s a glimpse into the three key elements that went into planning Katie and Jim’s Chinese destination wedding.

Destination Wedding Distinction

Many of our couples opt for symbolic ceremonies in destination weddings; having completed their legal formalities in their home country. In this instance, Katie and Jim chose Château Vaux le Vicomte in Maincy, France. Dreaming of a fairytale wedding, Château VLV was the perfect backdrop for the ceremony in the French gardens, followed by dinner in the Grand Salon.

Tea Ceremony

At the heart of Chinese weddings are time-honored rituals that symbolize harmony, prosperity, and happiness. One of these rituals is the tea ceremony. The wedding day begins early in the morning with the tea ceremony, often taking place at 7 am. This tradition is an opportunity for the bride and groom to pay their respects to their parents. As a thank you, the couple serves Tsao Chun–a Chinese tea–to their parents, elders, siblings, and grandparents for their love, support, and upbringing. Donning traditional red and gold attire as a sign of prosperity, honor, and wealth, the families exchange jewelry and lavish gifts as tokens of their appreciation.

Auspicious Timing

The wedding date isn’t chosen by chance. Many meticulous brides will choose wedding dates and times based on astrological considerations linked to their birth charts–believing it brings good luck and fertility to their marriage. They may consult with a fortune teller, Chinese monk, or Feng Shui master to choose the date that is the perfect fit.

Planning a Chinese destination wedding is a delicate dance between honoring tradition and embracing personal style. While the details of each wedding will be different and personal to the couple, each ritual, attire choice, and banquet dish contributes to the tapestry of joy, unity, and prosperity–a celebration that echoes through generations.